Health
5 Subtle Signs You Might Actually Be in a Codependent Relationship
And how to regain your independence without having to drift apart.
By Jenna Ryu
How to Take Rejection Way Less Personally
The pain is real, but understanding it can stop you from spiraling.
By Julia Ries
8 Really Great Budget-Friendly Mattresses
Including the best options for back pain, hot sleepers, and other common bedtime woes.
By Jordan Galloway
What It’s Like to Get a Breast Cancer Diagnosis While Training for the Olympics
Here’s how track prepared Marta Pen Freitas to face this new challenge.
By Cindy Kuzma
How to Stop Peeing So Much If You Feel Like You Constantly Have to Go
A bunch of things can send your bladder into overdrive—but there’s also plenty you can do to rein it in.
By Erica Sloan
These Are the Shoes You Want If You Have Plantar Fasciitis
Experts share their recs for sneakers, sandals, and boots that’ll keep your feet happy.
By Sara Coughlin and Kristin Canning
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Need a New Mattress? Shop Our 14 Top Picks
These are the very best options for every type of sleeper.
By Malia Griggs, Sara Coughlin, and Jordan Galloway
You Really Can’t ‘Fix’ Other People—Here’s How to Make Peace With That
Past trauma and hurt are valid, but those aren’t excuses for treating you like crap.
By Jenna Ryu
It’s Okay to Say No to That Perfectly Mid Holiday Party This Year
You don’t owe anyone an excuse for retreating, but just in case, here are a few of them.
By Julia Sullivan
The Best Insoles for Flat Feet, According to Experts
They’re an easy and effective upgrade for flimsy footwear.
By Nikhita Mahtani, Sara Coughlin, and Jennifer Heimlich
8 Tips for Getting Through Intense Medical Treatments, According to Folks Who Have Been There
Chronic illness can take a toll—but it's possible to make tough appointments a little more bearable.
By Julia Ries
What to Know About MCAS, a Condition That Can Feel Like a Nonstop Allergic Reaction
In the most severe cases, anaphylaxis can happen seemingly at random.
By Erica Sloan
The Best Cyber Monday Mattress Deals Are Extra Dreamy
Score dreamy savings on our personal favorites.
By Jessica Kasparian
You Won’t Want to Sleep on the Best Cyber Monday Bedding Deals
Major markdowns from Brooklinen, Buffy, Luxome, and more are here.
By Abbey Stone and Sarah Felbin
Here’s How Long Flu Shot Side Effects Last, If You Experience Them at All
Plus, how to feel better fast if your symptoms are really annoying.
By Korin Miller and Katie Camero
4 Reasons Your Mouth Might Taste Bloody or Metallic
Intense exercise is one possible culprit.
By Katie Camero
How to Find the Mattress Firmness Level That’s Perfect for You Personally
Experts break down how your bed’s “give” impacts your body—and your sleep.
By Leigh Weingus
Why Does My Anxiety Hit So Hard in the Morning Before I’ve Even Gotten Out of Bed?
The quality of your sleep and the size of your to-do list can both play a role.
By Erica Sloan
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Why a Family ‘Fart Walk’ Should Be on Your Agenda This Thanksgiving
Break bread together—and then, break wind.
By Erica Sloan
Everything You Need to Know About the Different Types of Mattresses
Experts explain how to find a bed that feels "just right."
By Suzy Forman