The 33 Best Vibrators for Beginners in 2024, Per Experts

Pros

• 20 vibration settings
• Bendy
• Only one button

Cons

• You have to continually press the button to cycle through each setting

Unlike most other bullets, this one has 20(!) different settings and some flexibility to it, which you may find more comfortable. It’s fully waterproof, so you can take it into the shower or tub next time you need some me-time.

Product specs

Battery life: 72 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Tip can be used for broad or pinpointed stimulation
• Handy low-battery indicator
• Budget-friendly

Cons

• It’s a little short for some people to hold comfortably, according to Dame shoppers

The Dip 2.0 has a uniquely shaped tip that can deliver precise or broad sensations, depending on how you hold it. Pleasure-seekers with roommates will also be pleased to learn that the motor is whisper-quiet—and it’s pretty budget-friendly, with an under-$50 price tag.

Product specs

Battery life: 90 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Discrete size and shape
• Sculpted tip for pinpointed stimulation
• 8 vibration settings
• Quiet

Cons

• Designed for external use only
• Lelo reviewers say the buttons can be a little finicky

This ultra-discreet vibrator is designed to look like a tube of lipstick. The sculpted tip can be angled to target smaller areas (like your nipples or clit), while the motor packs a surprising punch for such a tiny toy.

Product specs

Battery life: 90 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Has one large button
• Waterproof

Cons

• ABS plastic isn’t as soft as silicone

This vibe’s colorful metallic finish gives it a fun ’80s aesthetic. A surprisingly rumbly motor, waterproof design, and 10 quiet vibration settings also make it a top contender for your new nightstand hero.

Product specs

Battery life: 50 to 90 minutes (depending on the setting you use) | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Covered in soft, textured silicone
• Flexible neck for easy angling
• Handle doesn’t vibrate

Cons

• Only comes in neon colors

If you’re intrigued by wand vibrators but don’t want to commit to a huge one, the mid-size FemmeFunn Ultra Wand is a good compromise. Measuring 8 inches long, it has great reach, but is still petite enough to be used during partnered sex. When we tested it, we found that it delivers some seriously impressive results: “I ended up enjoying three orgasms in just under 17 minutes with the Ultra Wand,” one SELF writer explained in her review. “I usually can’t use wand vibrators for more than a few minutes before their weight fatigues my arm.”

Product specs

Battery life: 90 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Travel-friendly size
• Very powerful
• Weighs less than other wands

Cons

• Not waterproof
• For external use only

While the Original Magic Wand is a beloved classic, this mini version is better for beginners, according to Finn. “The Magic Wand Mini offers the style, shape, and power of other massagers, but in a travel-friendly size that offers easier handling and a less intimidating size and stature,” they say. Plus, it’s rechargeable, so there’s no need to stay close to an outlet while you play.

Product specs

Battery life: 150 minutes | Waterproof: No

Pros

• Comes with a removable grip
• Budget-friendly
• Only one button
• Flexible neck

Cons

• Smaller size may be trickier to hold

“Wands can feel intimidating to someone who has never used a sex toy before, so I like to recommend this one as something that is a bit more approachable and discreet,” sex therapist Madeline Cooper, LCSW, previously told SELF. This compact wand massager fits in the palm of your hand and has a flexible neck.

Product specs

Battery life: 90 minutes | Waterproof: Water-resistant

Pros

• Very powerful
• User-friendly design
• Multiple plug adaptors included

Cons

• Not waterproof

Said to have 30% more power than other popular wand vibrators, this British-made massager is ideal for people who need a lot of stimulation. But its intensity is adjustable, so you can start on low(-ish) and work your way up.

Product specs

Battery life: Plug-in | Waterproof: No

Pros

• Handle doubles as a dildo
• Both ends are textured
• Angled neck

Cons

• Vibration isn’t very intense
• Button labels can be confusing

This three-in-one toy functions as a wind vibrator, a vibrating dildo, and a G-spot stimulator. It has a rounded, textured head and a long, ribbed end for pleasuring yourself (or a partner) inside and out. “While I don’t think this toy will do it for power hunters or size queens, it’s an incredible investment for people who are in the market for their first-ever pleasure product, as well as those looking for a truly versatile vibe,” our tester wrote in her review.

Product specs

Battery life: 90 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Compact design
• Flexible neck
• Only one button

Cons

• Not designed for internal use
• Thin handle may not be comfortable to hold

This waterproof, rechargeable wand massager is compact, lightweight, and controlled with just one button. So, unlike many other wands, it’s easy to use one-handed while your other hand is busy, say, touching your partner, or penetrating yourself with another toy.

Product specs

Battery life: 60 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Rumbly vibrations
• Works well for solo and partnered play

Cons

• Only has a few vibration and intensity settings

For introducing sex toys into partnered play, experts like this rabbit-esque vibrator from JimmyJane. Though it has an overall petite, uncomplicated design, it contains two motors for more powerful vibrations and will work swimmingly if you use it in the shower or bath.

Product specs

Battery life: 60 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Made from soft, squishy silicone
• Versatile shape
• Tip can provide pinpointed sensation

Cons

• Pricey

Tenga Iroha toys are soft and squishy like little vibrating marshmallows, making them a good option for people with delicate, sensitive genitals. This one has a broad, rounded side and a more pinpointed side, so you can start with an all-over vulva massage before zeroing in on your hot spots.

Product specs

Battery life: 90 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Minimalist, discreet shape
• Only has one button
• Budget-friendly

Cons

• Water-resistant, not waterproof

SELF’s former commerce editor found a lot to love about this cone-shaped vibrator from Maude, including how user-friendly it is. “A long press of its single button turns the vibrator on and off, and a quick press cycles it between three intensities. That's it!” she wrote in her review. For added fun, she recommends using some of the brand’s aloe- and water-based lube with it.

Product specs

Battery life: 45 minutes | Waterproof: Water-resistant

Pros

• Impressive battery life
• Travel lock

Cons

• Buttons are small and close together, according to We-Vibe shoppers

“This is, hands-down, my top recommendation for first-time and experienced users,” says Dr. O’Reilly. “You can press it along the length of your entire vulva and slowly increase the intensity as arousal builds, or you can use its gently rounded tip on your hottest spots to heighten sensations or edge your way to orgasm.” The silky silicone coating feels luxurious, especially when paired with a water-based lube.

Product specs

Battery life: 120 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Discreet shape
• 4 vibration settings
• Chain is included
• Waterproof

Cons

• Short battery life

Possibly the most glamorous vibe on the market, this gleaming bullet hangs on a chain like a pendant, so you can always have it at the ready. “It’s the perfect blend of a gorgeous statement piece and an incredible external vibrator,” says Finn. If anyone asks you where you found your gorgeous necklace, you can choose whether to reveal its alternative purpose.

Product specs

Battery life: 40 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Travel-friendly
• Small and lightweight
• Comes with a five-year warranty

Cons

• Womanizer shoppers say it could be quieter

Only a little room left in your suitcase? Grab the Liberty 2—its small size, hygienic cover, and travel lock were made for providing pleasure while you’re on the go. Womanizer reviewers love that it feels powerful, but not too intense: “If I could only have one toy for the rest of my life, it would be this one,” one wrote.

Product specs

Battery life: 120 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• 12 intensity settings
• Handle is easy to hold

Cons

• Lelo shoppers say it’s loud

The Ora 3’s firm, tongue-like attachment rotates around or swishes back and forth across your clit for a realistic feel. To get started, loop your fingers through the handle and cycle through 12 settings with the push of a button.

Product specs

Battery life: 60 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Budget-friendly
• Wider nozzle fits clitorises of many sizes
• Handle extends reach
• Waterproof

Cons

• Not as aesthetically pleasing as other clit suckers

“For beginners looking to explore what the hype is with suction toys, the Satisfyer Pro 2 is an excellent place to start,” says Finn. It uses contact-free, pressure-wave suction and pulsation to recreate the sensations of oral sex. For how intense and well-made it is, it's relatively easy on the wallet—plus, Babeland reviewers say the handle is super easy to hold (even when it’s hard to focus).

Product specs

Battery life: 120 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• 17 vibration settings
• Very quiet
• Ergonomic shape

Cons

• Not textured

“This vibe’s thoughtful, easy-to-use design makes it such an excellent choice for first-timers,” our tester wrote in her review of the Biird Gii. “It’s a sound investment for people with sensitive bits like me, as well as the power-hungry.” Another bonus: It comes with super clear instructions to help you get going.

Product specs

Battery life: 80 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Handle is easy to hold
• App-compatible
• Has a firm ridge that’s ideal for targeting the G-spot

Cons

• Bluetooth connection with the app isn’t always seamless, according to We-Vibe reviewers

“The Rave 2 is an excellent choice for beginners,” according to Jessica O’Reilly, PhD, a sex educator, host of the Sex With Dr. Jess podcast, and co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay. While it’s marketed as a G-spot vibrator, it can be used externally too. “It also has an ergonomic handle for easy control, is app-compatible, and sports soft ‘pleasure edges’ that provide extra sensation against your most sensitive areas,” she says.

Product specs

Battery life: 120 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• App-compatible
• Soft and smooth to the touch
• Travel lock

Cons

• Controls may take some time to figure out, according to Lelo shoppers

The Gigi 3’s flat head is designed to help you locate and apply pressure to your G-spot (hence its cute name), but it can also be flipped over and used to massage your clitoris. The toy is rechargeable, waterproof, and has a travel lock—so it might become your new favorite vacation masturbation companion.

Product specs

Battery life: 120 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Curved shaft is designed for G-spot stimulation
• Easy to use, single-button design
• Anal-safe
• Surprisingly powerful vibration

Cons

• Lovehoney shoppers say it’s a little noisy

“If you know you like internal stimulation, this is the perfect option,” Dr. O’Reilly says. “Its gentle curve and bulbous head can provide vibrations against the shallow part of the vaginal canal, which tends to be more sensitive to vibes and pressure.” Since it has a flared base, the Mantric can also be inserted anally for prostate play (and we love a versatile investment).

Product specs

Battery life: 120 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Angled tip for targeted G-spot stimulation
• Raised ridges for extra pleasure
• Looped handle provides comfortable grip
• Travel lock

Cons

• Only has a few vibration intensities and patterns

“This G-spot vibe may look silly, but it’s just as serious about pleasure as it is about being playful,” says Finn. “Each ridge on the shaft adds sensation against the nerve-rich vaginal opening as you move it in the body, and the bulbous head makes it super easy to target the G-spot as you play.” The strong motor makes it great for external stimulation too.

Product specs

Battery life: 120 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Transforms any external wand vibrator into an internal toy
• Offers 5 insertable inches
• Ridged edges can stimulate your clit

Cons

• Wand vibrator sold separately
• Won’t fit all massager heads

If you think you need wand-level vibrations but you’re not necessarily thrilled about holding a big, bulky wand head against your bits, consider throwing an attachment like this one into your cart. It focuses those thrumming vibrations into a smaller shape, which can be used to stimulate your G-spot, clit, or both at once.

Product specs

Battery life: N/A | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Budget-friendly
• Smaller girth is easier to insert
• Waterproof

Cons

• AAA batteries not included

Experts previously told SELF that this top-recommended rabbit vibrator is “one of the best sex toys on the market today,” even for newbies. It's super smooth and easy to insert.

Product specs

Battery life: N/A | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Unique design
• Made from soft, textured silicone

Cons

• There’s a slight learning curve

When our tester tried the Snail Vibe Curve, she noticed something special about its funky shape: “Since the entire silicone snail is flexible, you can slide the longer end in just a little, or all the way—the ‘shell’ part of the toy unfurls as you insert the toy deeper. In my opinion, this is an improvement over other rabbit vibes that have shorter arms that can’t reach your clit unless the other end is fully inside your vagina,” she wrote in her review. “Each time I use the Snail Vibe, I have fun.”

Product specs

Battery life: 60 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Quiet
• Bendy
• Made from medical-grade silicone

Cons

• May not be intense enough for some, according to Dame reviewers

“My favorite in the palm vibrator category is the Pom from Dame,” says Dr. Richmond. This pebble-shaped option is wide enough to cover the entire vulva, but small enough to feel non-intrusive during partnered play. One side has a slight ridge, to give your clit a little extra love.

Product specs

Battery life: 60 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Surprisingly rumbly vibrations
• Thin edges can provide pinpointed sensation

Cons

• Vibrations aren’t very intense, according to Babeland shoppers

Finn recommends the Mimi for getting down and dirty: “It’s covered in squishy silicone, which makes it great for folks who like the sensation of pressure, either by pressing the toy down on their body or by grinding against the vibrator,” they say. It also has a solid range of settings and vibration patterns.

Product specs

Battery life: 120 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Portable
• Cordless design
• Has two motors that move independently

Cons

• Batteries not included
• Not waterproof

The Ruby Glow stimulates your clit, vaginal opening, and perineum (the sensitive area between your vagina and your anus) while you rock against it. “You can sit on it like a saddle and let the vibrations do the work, or hold it in your palm against the body to enjoy the sensations,” says Finn.

Product specs

Battery life: 2 AA batteries | Waterproof: Splash-proof

Pros

• Unique, highly textured shape
• Easy to use

Cons

• Only has a few vibration and intensity settings

Cute Little Fuckers is a queer- and trans-owned company that designs toys that can be used regardless of gender or anatomy. Their take on the grinding vibrator, the Starsi, is a cute little vibe you can use on any external pleasure spots you want.

Product specs

Battery life: 110 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Easy-to-grip ring
• Very tapered tip
• Waterproof
• Quiet

Cons

• Not app-compatible or remote controlled

No larger than a baby carrot, the Unbound Shimmy is our top pick for butt stuff beginners. It has a super tapered tip for easy entry (when paired with the right anal lube). Plus, it has 5 vibration speeds and 5 patterns to explore when you’re ready to level up your back door fun.

Product specs

Battery life: 120 minutes | Waterproof: Yes

Pros

• Doubles as finger vibrator and a cock ring
• Only has one button
• Stretchy ring fits a variety of girths

Cons

• Vibrations can be very intense, some Tenga reviewers say

Vibrating cock rings are designed to make sex more fun for both partners by stimulating the wearer and the receiver at the same time. This one from Tenga can also be used freehand as a clitoral vibe, in which case the loop goes around your fingers to make it easier to hold.

Product specs

Battery life: 60 minutes | Waterproof: Yes